F was the first boy in the family. All my siblings are girls and my eldest child is a girl, and so when F came into our fold, we were all a bit surprised. Unlike my daughter, who would just sit in the corner and quietly play with her toys when she was a toddler, F loved crawling, walking, and climbing all over the place. Needless to say that my parents were quite shocked.
When F became a grade schooler, he started getting chubby and chunky. I thought it was cute but his classmates didn't think so. He was teased incessantly and at some point, he became a cry baby. My heart broke but what to do? He loved food and loved eating, and in point of fact, he wanted to be a chef when he grew up.
Fortunately, time took care of everything. When he entered his teen years, he started growing tall--fast! He started losing his baby fat and started growing like a weed. Today, he is a fine-looking young man who stands as the man of the house. It is F who we run to when an electric fan breaks down or when some electronic device needs figuring out. It is F who locks up the house before he goes to sleep, and fortunately for me, it is also F who cooks our meals when I'm out working or when I'm too tired to whip up stuff in the kitchen. F also loves Baby S to pieces, and my sister B always teases him about being the stand-in daddy.
When I first cradled him in my arms, I never thought that this cute, little baby would one day be taking care of us in his own special way. I love you, F! Happy birthday! :)
P.S. Been busy with all the work and all the merry celebrations; April sure has been one fun ride! :)

F with Baby S on The Swing.

All dressed up for the prom :)

Smile!
It's really amazing to see how our kids grow up and become more responsible, somebody whom you can depend on--a total shift from the times they've been dependent on us.
ReplyDeleteF looks like a mighty fine young man. Credit is yours. You're doing a mighty fine job as a mom Jing.:)
ReplyDeleteParenting is so complicated and difficult but when your children turn out to be well adjusted, responsible individuals you know you did something right.
ReplyDeleteCarmen, it is amazing indeed, and I am so grateful :)
ReplyDeleteEnya, thank you!! You're so sweet!
Gena, yes, parenting is complicated; that's why I just take it one day at a time :)